Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Kelakar version malay

kalau saya tangkai awak daunnya,kalau saya aur awak tebingnye,kalau saya kumbang awak bungenye,
kalau saya langit awak buminye,
& kalau saya tarzan awak le beruknye..


Bila kita cantik tak siapa memandang,
bila kita baik tak siapa memuji,
bila kita susah tak siapa menolong,
bila kita jatuh tak siapa mengangkat,
Tapi………
bila kita kentut semua mata memandang kita...



HP anda telah dilengkapi puzzle game.
Caranya mudah saja.
Lemparkan HP anda ke dinding hingga berderai...
kemudian...susunkan kembali.
Selamat Mencuba!



Kalau dapat bini muda-nampak BABY DOLL.
Kalau dapat bini sederhana muda pula-nampak BARBIE DOLL.
Tapi bila dapat bini tua-nampak PANADOL !!


 

 

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Cinta Version Malay

Bila Wajahmu Aku Bayangkan Terasa Sayang Ku Rasa Rindu Terasa Sayang... Mengenangkanmu ♥ Bila Kasihmu Engkau Curahkan Ku Rasa Hairan Rasa Terharu Ku Rasa Hairan..... Mengenangkanmu ♥ Pernah Dulu Pernah Ku Dicinta Berkasih Bermanja Tiada Tiada Pernah Ku Alami ♥ Di Cinta Begini......

Surviving Lost Love and Thriving

Key Truisms about Surviving Lost Love

When one door of happiness closes, another opens:
but often we look so long at the closed door
that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.

farhana.

Life's glory is not in never falling,
but in getting up EVERY time you fall.
zul aidil


Overcoming a Broken Heart

Step One:
  • Allow yourself time to heal, and know that you can heal. Whether the loss is due to death, rejection, or other reason.
  • It is normal to grieve over a loss of a love for any reason.
  • It usually takes two to three years for a couple whose relationship has broken up to begin to put their lives back together again. It sometimes takes five years for individuals and families to get over the emotional pain and trauma. Many people can have serious health and emotional problems during this time.

Step Two:
  • Realize that you still can find happiness.
  • Realize that you can control how you think, what you think about, and how much.
  • A key is to concentrate on the positives you have in the present. Not thinking about the future or past.
Healing Helpers
  • Being around people and getting involved in helping others is a good way to accelerate the proces of healing.
  • Laughing helps too, so see a comedy, watch funny things. That is part of the reason the Irish have a party when someone passes away.
  • Helping others helps you loose sight of your own losses.
  • It is strongly suggested that you take the intensity of your feelings and re-direct them into doing something constructive that helps others. For me, it was creating this web site and doing volunteer work that helps others. Do volunteer work, it can help the healing process greatly. Especially, if the volunteer work envolves working with others, and feeling gratitude from those you are helping. The channeling the power of your feelings to accomplish constructive acts is very, very helpful.
Suggested Reading:
All three helped me. Especially the 1st & 2nd Habit
Step Three:
  • Activily work to feel better.
  • Act happy and smile. Even if you don't feel that way, it should start to make you feel that way.
  • Life will be better


My Personal Experience
In my lifetime (in my 40's now) I have had several relationships. After each major relationship, it took me awhile before I was able to move on. To open myself to caring about someone else.
Even when I did move on, those who I said "I love you" to, I still care about and love to this day.
Now, even knowing that I still truly love the girl who inspired this website who moved on, I don't think of her as a "one and only love." She is the only person I can say I have "true love" for, and might remain that for the rest of my life. I don't know. She may be the person whom I love most in my life, and is at this point in my life by a wide margin.
But, as with all losses of love, I need time to grieve over my loss, I need to cherish what I had, realize what I have good in my life at the moment, and keep a hope for a better future.
If you have lost love, allow yourself the time to grieve (could be months, years. Harder when you have contact with the person that you love, than if you have no contact therapists tell me), then follow the same steps I am trying to do.
Good Luck,
Gregg
NOTE: Count your blessings! Take time to count what is good in your life. If a Jewish man living in a Nazi death camp during World War II could find positives in his life and have a positive attitude, then you can too!


Love & Loving Relationships are in everyone's life!*

Hopefully, you will find this site VERY helpful in finding out about love, finding people to love, expressing love, and realizing the love you have in your life. That is the intention.
everythingaboutmyworld.com is the result of my redirecting in a positive way my feelings for a girl who was my girlfriend after we broke up in 2005. I didn't understand the overwhelming feelings I had for her and so I did a search for the answer. Turned out it was "true love" and the information in the About Love area is the result of that search. Since then I have learned a lot about more about love and hope to share it with you.
See, I started the site on the very day that she broke up with me. What I learned about losing a loved one is in the Broken Hearts area. Romance & Relationships reflects information I collected for the future, and experiences from my past too. Loving Gifts area contains gifts I loved to give (and ones I do give to friends and my daughter). Plus, ones I would like to give. Dating & Finding Love is a good area to look at if you are in that stage.
The Love Q & A area is where you can ask questions and get answers from others on the site ... and I will answer when possible too. You can also join the everythingaboutmyworld.blogspot.com Love Club and communicate with others who are interested in love. If you are single, maybe you will find a mate. If you are married, taked, or not looking you can join and find friends or people to talk to about a nice subject ... love.
* Almost ... if you close yourself to what love exists in your life ... then you won't have it.
I tried to put in one place, the information and resources that I found through talking with psychotherapists (relationship counselors), college psychology courses, researching several books, searching the Internet, and other sources.
This site isn't about putting TONS of links to sites that may be useful. But, more about going through the process of weeding out the thousands of quotes, sites and resources and putting up just the most helpful. Some areas will change, others will remain the same, for some truths are simple and age old.
As for it being a ".com" site, that is more due to it being easier for people to remember, than any commercial purpose of the site. The purpose of everythingaboutmyworld.blogspot.com is about helping people with understanding love, expressing love, and dealing with love and more. The other purpose is to honor a girl named amiera who inspired me.
Tell me what you think, positive and negative. The goal is to make this site a resource that is truly valued. (Your comments)
Oh, for those who are concerned, I have moved on from the girl who inspired this site. I have a great daughter, family, friends, and pets that I love. Plus, I have found someone to love and things are going good. Always count those who love you and whom you love before you moan about what you don't have ... you might be surprised.

hearts1 Love Is Great ... Welcome! Value Love when you have it!

I value the love I have. I love a beautiful girl named Farhana, who is a great mother (of Merry Fe and Mark ... love them!), and a loving member of her family. After knowing her as a good friend since 2010, I finally met her in person January 15th, 2010 ... and that is when I fell for her. The minute I saw her I knew I wanted us to be together. Amazed me ... still does.
Who is a great daughter. I also love the friends and family I have who have been supportive and I have been supportive to them ... mutual caring is good ... some for many years and others for many days. People are caring and loving if you let them. And yes ... we have cats ... which are good for showing love (when they feel it is a good idea ... sigh).
Check your life and think about who loves you ... Life is worth living, there is love in pretty much everyones life if you pay attention. And don't forget to let those you love know that you love them ... and let them know often!
Love you all ...                                                                                                                                                  from - zul aidil ashraf